Before reading this you should know no 1 rule of a MIDDLE CLASS FAMILY
” DON’T SAY “F”(fuck) word in public and “B” (business) word in family.
As I have discussed in my previous blog about middle class issue’s. Similarly I am going to discuss a issue which is most often faced by many of the youngster’s in their family in today’s society. Raising this issue in family will make you everything….. almost everything rather than just being a member of a family. Because you my friend want to do your own Business.
your family wants you to do a regular salary based Government job.
So let us see what happens in the war between Govt. Job vs Business.
The govt.job and the middle class family are something like love birds and Janmo ka pyar type thing, of being together till the eternity. Every middle class family put it’s blind faith in govt.job and pass it from generation to generation with full loyality. And any one who betrays it will be considered as Desh ka Gaddar in a middle class family.
Like if you’re in a middle class family you have to do govt.job or as my generation have pumped up the craze in private sector, you can do private job too. So you have to do a salary based
job if you are in a middle class family. Have you seen any millionaire’s son/daughter doing a govt.job the answer is No.
As if govt. has also made jobs for only middle class people.
And yes all the father’s in a middle class family search a Govt. employee for their daughter than a private sector employee, Agar TB bhi nhi Mila to then they will go for some businessman.This is also a reason why many are opting for Govt. Job🤣🤣🤣🤣 because from our childhood we are warned ki naukri nhi krogey to shadi nhi hogi😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. And the parents also will marry their daughter with a govt.employee who gets 30,000 bucks a month and the kirane wala who’s turn-over is 30,000 bucks a day will remain a bachelor.
So doing business is the worst and last option for a middle class person in every manner according to their parents and other family members. If you are planning to leave your private sector job then as a middle class person you have only two options:-
1- Get another one
2- Prepare for Govt.job.
If you are thinking to start your business or you can say startup. Then you are on wrong track according to society. Because the mind set of middle class society is like that. A person is preparing for competitions, is not because he wants to but because he doesn’t have any choice. Preparing for Govt. Job is not bad thing it is good if you are willing to do one. But forcefully dragging your self in govt.sector just because you seem that you don’t have any option is just a foolish thing one educated person can do.
If you wanna do business just don’t discuss it in your family. The moment you said business.
The moment you become Thelewala, kirane wala, dukan wala, gali ka chai wala😉😉😉😉, and the most Nakaraaaaa aadmi in your entire family tree. And suddenly the name of khandan will be blended in mud and served with hot slippers in your elders hand with the topping of certain desi galis. Biizzzeenessss karenge *********.
And there are certain excuses given by our elders in family.
- Egyarah baje to so k uthate h nawab, bizzznesss kya krenge.( Wakes up late how he can do buisness).
- Baccho kha Khel nhi h. Din raat ka pta nhi chlta. Inse kya ho jayega?
- Phle hi kh re they Sumit ka sath chod do Shi ladka nhi h wo. Misguied kr diya isko. Your friend will be blamed😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.
- Dekho beta kuch nhi rkha in bizness wizness me Job kr lo Kam se Kam future to secure rhega. You will get asssured of permanent income.
- And last but not the least. Paise kha se ayenge? The money issue.
The money problem excuse comes in the last and you are willing to give a very simple solution to this and that is a bank loan.
You don’t know that this is your biggest mistake if you’re going to say for a loan. Because almost every big thing in a middle class family come with a help of a bank loan. Even your higher education is completed with that help of a bank loan. And if you said the word loan then my friend get ready to listen a long long and a very long lecture on the topic loan with some emotional blackmailing as default part of it.
But then you will say that you will pay for that loan from the profit of business. But then also you are wrong my friend because your family has doubt in even starting your own business how come you can think that they will think you can pay the loan. Because you have been declared worthless the moment you discussed business in a middle class family.
In a middle class family it is good to prepare for govt.job five years but if you plan for business for five months you will become Khaliyar, Awara , Nakaraaaaa, suddenly you will be running from family responsibilities according to your parents, shadi ki age will also go, and rest will be fulfilled by your neighbors.
There are also people who belong to middle class family and became great businessmen and they created history.
So if you wanna do business of course do it but at least have sensible plan so that you could convince your family because if you convinced them you can put any one in your bottle
on this planet.